Following the “exposure, ” the Allens received barrages of virulent e-mails from Zonis’ account.

He later denied composing both the anonymous email messages and some that came from their account, speculating that maybe anyone to whom he’d told his tale had taken it upon by themselves to discipline the Allens, or that the Allens had been harassing each other and blaming him. He did care that is n’t much he claims, because he considered the harassment trivial: “My legal rights were violated and nobody cares, and we’re still speaking about just exactly what took place to bad Courtney? ”

After exposing the event, Steven proceeded seeking advice off their people from the Marriage Builders web web site. He also posted email messages between Courtney and Zonis, and a duplicate of a page which he penned to Courtney: “I am therefore really sorry we hurt both you and harm you so profoundly for decades, by maybe perhaps not considering your emotions near as far as I need to have, and also by demanding and disrespecting your viewpoint to obtain the things I wanted. I became controlling and abusive. I became therefore certain We had been appropriate, and having the thing I desired would allow you to too, I was causing you. That i did son’t realize the hurt” He didn’t understand that Zonis had discovered these articles and took them as Steven admitting to becoming an abuser.

Steven had hoped the visibility will allow them to go on; it had the effect that is opposite.

One of is own coworkers received a message accusing Steven of assaulting Courtney. When Steven told Courtney that Zonis should have delivered it, she refused to think him. Continue reading “”